Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it’s not uncommon to feel lost along the way. You might have forgotten who you were before you became a part of a “we.” Identity changes with time and focusing too much on the marriage or others around you can lead to neglecting your own needs and individuality. It’s crucial to recognize when you’ve lost touch with yourself and take steps to rediscover your own identity.
Taking care of yourself is essential. Without nurturing your own identity and finding your individual purpose, it’s easy to get lost in the demands of marriage and family life. While it’s important to support your partner and nurture your relationship, you must also prioritize your own well-being. This balance is key to maintaining a healthy and fulfilling marriage and feeling good and healthy within yourself. Think of it this way: a car without fuel can’t go anywhere, and neither can you.
No matter how busy you are or how much you think you don’t have time, it’s essential to carve out some moments for yourself. Even small acts of self-care can make a significant difference. Whether it’s a hobby you enjoy, a solo walk, or quiet time with a book, these moments help you reconnect with who you are. By taking care of yourself, you not only rejuvenate your spirit but also bring more to your relationship. When you are fulfilled and happy as an individual, you contribute positively to your marriage, creating a more vibrant and loving partnership.
Radiant Pathways Inc. –Marriage Coaching
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Susan Ortolano – Intuitive Relationship & Marriage Coach
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